Andy I cannot imagine what you are going through, I do remember many years ago I was flown back to the UK and admitted into hospital on August Bank Holiday,
Six months later I was in the office of the Medical Officer with my freshly rebuilt legs and he said "I am signing you off as fit for duty, any questions"? "Yes" I said, "I have no feeling in my right leg from the ankle to just above the knee,Oh don't worry about that boy you will soon make a full recovery",
That was 1966, it is still without feeling although both legs work perfectly although the scars still make kids run to their mothers when I am by a swimming pool, crying out "urhh look at his legs",
I have seen some terrible injuries suffered by friends so I figure I got away pretty lightly especially when I think of how much pain I could be in if I actually had feeling in my leg
Get well.
Shaun.