jarndice wrote:What a fool I am , I merely thought that if you were pleased enough with the service you got from a dealer that you thought it merited mention in the recommended dealers list, that to show your appreciation you would include the dealers address so that more people would buy from them, And here I am being told by an American, a citizen of the nation that invented the hard sell, not to be so pushy
Colonel If I have overstepped the bounds of decency and good manners I am truly sorry But with such a small footprint on the ground that is commerce I doubt this forum is going to disturb the FTSE or the NASDAK.
I am talking about dealers, People who my Grandmother referred to sniffily as "Tradesmen" people who make a living in selling product not someone who has just saved you from drowning and wants no publicity!!!
Ask yourself WO
1c....if you were a seller....if you would want to face the slings and arrows that follow...to change the uncertainty of one's future by allowing one's self to be put on a list...on a board a rabid consumption

some may ...some may not...as they ponder the possibilities...especially when a good review of the product...has caused great haste to the disappearance of product spoken of....which is how the play has progressed...Sometimes things Sell themselves...Sometimes they need a push....Answers to queries that have never been addressed before ....for those watching with wanting intent
I recently made such a purchase...patiently I waited...as early "first kid on the blockers" jumped at the opportunity to own that Item...Saw many get winners...saw an equal amount of losers ...with missing or improperly installed bits that inhibited the creation of the item intended
BALANCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!....Balance is the Key to any situation...you must weigh the Woes and the Yays ....in my case ....while weighing the scales...the Seller has had a Flurry ...and is already at his limits in the sale of that product...Thus has not replied to my inquiry about being put on a List
TRUST and RESPECT!!!!!!!!!!!....Both given to me with his personal guarantee...and prompt delivery....Returned with prompt payment and a little jocularity
INITIATIVE!!!!!!!!!!!! ...I never spoke word of seller's ID....as uncertainty of Global service loomed a dark cloud over any future transaction...YET!...Those with "initiative"...FOUND!!!!!!!!!!!!...the treasure...and are probably in glee as we speak
COMPETITORS!!!!!!!!!!!...The burden of competition is always present in any marketplace...big or small....Competitors will try to sully a good name...with Negative Feedbacks of Childlike nature
YEH!!!!!!!!!!! I have seen such deeds of ill refute ...and probably many haves seen same as well
NEI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I do not wish that upon such a good person....it is a monkey to which I do not wish to carry
CONSEQUENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A story versed lead in ..to consequence of such recommendations ....I once put a Good Seller on the List...to my dismay.......his service started to flail ...from one week delivery to two months wrong item...corrected promptly ...but not without Consequential added pomp and piddlery ...Caused many regrets....for both he and I....Trust has been broken to a certain degree
BOTTOM LINE....So you see WO
1c ....Thought must be given before making any decision...Finding the Balance...to retain Trust and Respect...to help ward off Competition who may Yeh or Nei...the Consequences to be weighed ...For those who take the Initiative...I feel my seller's fortune will be made
IN OTHER WORDS....The guy had done great since I posted my purchase without mention of his name...He is actually almost sold out of said Item...so has already benefited brisk sales as well as profit ...so if he really needs the promotion...I'm sure he'll let me know
Carpe Diem WO
1c...
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