Hello YHR,
This is my own personel opinion as a forum member here on RCTankWarfare.
Although an additional title that I have here "Intolerator" gives me certain power's that the average member does not have,I'm very happy to say so far I have only used it one time to remove a lewd post by some clown.I have also blocked a fair ammount of spammers who was removed later on by those who have the power to do that.All the staff here if you wish to call us that are active into one hobby or the other and are not here just to be a police force.But then also it is not hard to realize that some form of control must be maintained on a forum and one person can not do the job by themself.
We also have A "modd--section" where the staff can discuss different things concerning the forum in general and any problems that may have come to light.Suggestion's are made and discussed and through that means the best course is chossen and used for the betterment of all.
Now for myself---------This is from me as a member only---
Some of what you say above does apply in certin ways,but in other ways don't apply as far as I'm concerned.First off this is the general posting area and a lot of latitude is allowed here and should be.
Discussing this forum and any other forum relating to hobbies is not out of line in this area.(where else would it be fitting to talk about such matters) One problem I was allways troubled with was a member going into a post that in reality they may have no interest in other than to state the fact that they don't think this post should be here or don't like what is being said in it.What may not be interesting to me,may very well be interesting to others.This is what forums are all about----If this is not one's cup of tea I would say stay out of it,or join in and offer one's own opinion trying to kind of stay with-in the subject matter. (although I have been guilty of wondering off topic many times ;D

Trying to improve on that though )
One of several reasons I left (RC UNIVERSE) was the fact that members were allowed to enter in to personel attacks on "members' and or "slanderous statements" about the project they were working on.(a lot of them aimed at me in general) One was just supposed to set there and suck-it-up I guess,well that don't work to well with me.This goes right back to the modderator's for letting this take place and soon it gets so more and more members think they have the right to do this.This is for sure not right for the member,and it is for sure not good for the forum.All the potential new members (and existing members) must feel they can post and join in any discussion of their choice with-out the fear of being attacked.This must also apply to any of their builds they may be working on.
Many -many -times I have seen a project or build where someone would go in and point out everything they thought was wrong with what was being done.This is just plain rude and uncalled for,and can be a real obsticle that some new people to a hobby may not be willing to take.If someone asks for opinions on what they are working on then the "door is open" and by all means offer your opinion.Other wise don't say anything, and if you like what they are doing or it looks good to you---say so in a reply.
If one looks this forum over and all the possible catagorys for about every asspect of tank building,there is a place to go to get into some serious building--teaching--and showing a particular brand and model.In fact there is a place here for just about any hobby that I have ever been interested in----And all avaible on the main page at the click of a mouse.
This forum is free---you can belong to any number of other forum's if you choose---It is going to prove to be one of "if not the best" forums you will find on the net---.Stand buy and watch and see if I'm wrong----
I do have a plan here though----To have fun building on my hobby items--posting a lot of pictures of them----even posting some things in the off topic area that may have interest to some,but it may not be of interest to others---Thats OK

I hope all this will help to make this a very active and fun place to be,and will entice others to join in on the fun.
Just my own opinion for what ever it is worth---
BIGMIG
P.S. Even I had to come back and hopefully edit out "the other nasty forum" ::) ::) Not my wording--- ::) ::)