Re: about Rc-Command ?
Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 6:29 am
Gentlemen, I am sure there are two sides to this story, and I am NOT going to get involved or denigrate either side.
That being said, you have to understand MatsF side. He lives in Sweden. English is not his first language. It is very difficult to express yourself in a foreign language, especially the subtle nuances of a dispute. Couple that with the frustration of he and his friend sending money for product to a firm 7000 miles away in good faith and not receiving product, it is easy to understand the growing anger and the difficulty of expressing said anger in what would be considered polite English terms.
Look at it from MatsF side. It is probably beyond the time limit for any recourse from paypal or a credit card company. That leaves only legal action, although I do not know the time limit for paypal and credit card disputes, never having had a dispute with paypal or a card company. While the amount may be large to MatsF, to the US Court system it is quite small, going in the small claims court. OK. How is anyone from Sweden going to engage a lawyer and sue to get his money back in USA? The cost will far outweigh the return even if MatsF manages to pull it off, which is highly doubtful. Bottom line is, with out some kind of communication between Bill and MatsF, there will be no resolution, and the money is gone. We know Bill, and this will probably not happen, but I fully understand MatsF's fears that in the end his money is indeed gone.
Many of you, especially in USA, have no idea of the vitriol and distrust some Europeans have for Americans. Living where I do, I am fully aware of it and see it every day. Little things about our culture are difficult to understand and are seen in the wrong light. Americans are regarded as being rich, uncultured, and obnoxious. Huh. You want obnoxious, come to Sevastopol in tourist season and watch the visitors from former SSSR or EU. Quite charming to say the least. Therefore, I am in a unique position to see clearly both sides of this dispute.
I would advise all of us to calm down a little, and lets see if this can be resolved quickly and quietly. In Bill's defence, I can not fathom doing what he does with HL. Can you imagine getting a container load of tanks, and having to open each and every tank, test it, repair it, and religate a fair percentage to the scrap pile? Think of the time that takes! In MatsF's defence, he has paid good, hard earned money for product almost 3 months ago and has neither product nor a refund.
Again, gentlemen, let's all calm down and see if the problem can be resolved.
That being said, you have to understand MatsF side. He lives in Sweden. English is not his first language. It is very difficult to express yourself in a foreign language, especially the subtle nuances of a dispute. Couple that with the frustration of he and his friend sending money for product to a firm 7000 miles away in good faith and not receiving product, it is easy to understand the growing anger and the difficulty of expressing said anger in what would be considered polite English terms.
Look at it from MatsF side. It is probably beyond the time limit for any recourse from paypal or a credit card company. That leaves only legal action, although I do not know the time limit for paypal and credit card disputes, never having had a dispute with paypal or a card company. While the amount may be large to MatsF, to the US Court system it is quite small, going in the small claims court. OK. How is anyone from Sweden going to engage a lawyer and sue to get his money back in USA? The cost will far outweigh the return even if MatsF manages to pull it off, which is highly doubtful. Bottom line is, with out some kind of communication between Bill and MatsF, there will be no resolution, and the money is gone. We know Bill, and this will probably not happen, but I fully understand MatsF's fears that in the end his money is indeed gone.
Many of you, especially in USA, have no idea of the vitriol and distrust some Europeans have for Americans. Living where I do, I am fully aware of it and see it every day. Little things about our culture are difficult to understand and are seen in the wrong light. Americans are regarded as being rich, uncultured, and obnoxious. Huh. You want obnoxious, come to Sevastopol in tourist season and watch the visitors from former SSSR or EU. Quite charming to say the least. Therefore, I am in a unique position to see clearly both sides of this dispute.
I would advise all of us to calm down a little, and lets see if this can be resolved quickly and quietly. In Bill's defence, I can not fathom doing what he does with HL. Can you imagine getting a container load of tanks, and having to open each and every tank, test it, repair it, and religate a fair percentage to the scrap pile? Think of the time that takes! In MatsF's defence, he has paid good, hard earned money for product almost 3 months ago and has neither product nor a refund.
Again, gentlemen, let's all calm down and see if the problem can be resolved.